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Writer's pictureBrittney Koleszarik

9 Essential Tips for Getting Your Resistant Toddler to Nap:


Hello, fellow parents and caregivers! As a pediatric sleep consultant AND TODDLER MOM, I understand the struggles you face when it comes to getting your little one to take their much-needed naps. Toddlerhood can be a challenging phase, and naptime battles are a common concern. But fear not, for I am here to share nine essential tips that will help you navigate these naptime hurdles and ensure your toddler gets the restful sleep they need.


  1. Establish a Consistent Naptime Routine:

Consistency is key when it comes to toddlers. Setting up a predictable naptime routine can do wonders for coaxing your little one to rest. Create a soothing sequence of events leading up to naptime, such as reading a calming story, dimming the lights, or singing a lullaby. A consistent routine signals to your toddler that it's time to wind down, making it easier for them to transition to sleep.


2. Create a Relaxing Sleep Environment:

A sleep-conducive environment can greatly influence your toddler's willingness to nap. Ensure their sleep space is comfortable, quiet, and darkened. Use blackout curtains to block out any external light, which can interfere with their sleep. Soft and cozy bedding can also enhance their comfort and promote relaxation.


3. Observe the Right Timing:

Timing is crucial when it comes to naps. Watch for your toddler's sleep cues and try to put them down for a nap before they become overtired. Signs like eye rubbing, yawning, or fussiness indicate it's time to rest. Missing these cues may lead to a more resistant toddler, making it harder for them to settle down.


4. Encourage Independent Sleep:

Teaching your toddler to self-soothe and fall asleep independently is a valuable skill that will benefit them in the long run. Gradually encourage them to sleep without needing your constant presence, such as using a comfort object like a stuffed animal or a blanket. This will empower them to feel more secure during naptime.


5. Communicate the Naptime Plan:

Toddlers thrive when they understand what's expected of them. Communicate the naptime plan to your little one in a simple and positive manner. Use age-appropriate language and visuals, like pictures or a visual schedule, to help them comprehend the routine. Verbalize that it's time for a nap and explain why sleep is essential for growing up strong and healthy. Encouraging them to be part of the process will make them feel more involved and cooperative.


6. Get the Energy Out Before Naptime:

One of the reasons toddlers may resist napping is because they still have pent-up energy from earlier activities. Engaging in physical play or outdoor activities before naptime can help burn off some of that energy, making it easier for them to wind down and relax. A trip to the park, a short walk, or playing active games can help tire them out in a healthy way.


7. Limit Sugar and Screen Time Before Nap:

Avoid giving your toddler sugary snacks or beverages at anytime, as sugar can cause energy spikes and make it challenging for them to settle down. Additionally, limit screen time, especially right before naptime, as the blue light emitted by screens can interfere with their natural sleep-inducing hormones. Instead, opt for calming activities like reading a book or doing a quiet puzzle to ease them into a more relaxed state.


8. Be Patient and Understanding:

Resisting naptime can be a part of a toddler's development as they test boundaries and assert their independence. It's essential to remain patient and understanding during this phase. Consistently following the routine and providing reassurance will eventually help them adjust to the idea of napping.


9. Be Mindful of Transition Periods:

Toddlers thrive on routine, so keep in mind that transitions between activities can be challenging for them. Give your little one ample time to transition from playtime to naptime smoothly. Gradually winding down from energetic activities to quieter ones can make the transition less jarring for them.



By incorporating these nine essential tips and committing to them for 2-3 weeks will help your toddler accept napping as a natural part of their daily routine. Consistency and patience are key during this process, as your little one adapts to the new naptime habits.

On days when your toddler may resist napping, opt for quiet time activities instead. Engaging in calm and soothing activities will still provide them with valuable rest and downtime, allowing their bodies and minds to recharge.

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